What is claimed is: 1. A micro-machined cell for an atomic frequency standard comprising: a container having an interior, walls and a window to allow light to pass therethrough, said container operable to hold a vapor; a first vapor contained in said container, said first vapor comprising a plurality of quantum absorbers, said absorbers having a transition frequency; and means for reducing the destruction of the coherence of the quantum absorbers due to collisions of the quantum absorbers with the cell walls. 2. A micro-machined cell according to claim 1, wherein the means for reducing the destruction of the coherence of the quantum absorbers is a coating applied to the walls of the container. 3. A micro-machined cell according to claim 1, wherein the means for reducing the destruction of the coherence of the quantum absorbers is a second vapor of atoms enclosed inside the container. 4. A micro-machined cell according to claim 1, wherein the size of the cell is 1000 .mu.m.sup.3. 5. A micro-machined cell according to claim 1, wherein said cell is fabricated by bonding using a combination of elevated temperature and applied electric field of a plurality of cell materials in order to for said cell to enclose a small volume of space in an air-tight manner; wherein said plurality of quantum absorbers is enclosed in said small volume. 6. A micro-machined cell according to claim 1 wherein said cell is fabricated by compression bonding at an elevated temperature of a plurality of cell materials each separated by a thin layer of a metallic material. 7. An atomic frequency standard comprising: a micro-machined cell according to claim 1; a laser operable to generate light and positioned such that said light passes through said vapor; and a photodetector for detecting said light having passed through said vapor to provide a signal that is referenced to a characteristic of said detected light. 8. An atomic frequency standard according to claim 7 further comprising a system to apply an oscillating magnetic field to the quantum absorbers, wherein the photodetector monitors said detected light to provide adjustments to the frequency of said oscillating magnetic field, detects a frequency of modulation that coincides with one of said quantum absorbers, a harmonic of said quantum absorber frequency or a subharmonic of said quantum absorber frequency by detecting a change in the detected light and outputs the detected frequency as a reference. 9. An atomic frequency standard according to claim 7, further comprising an external oscillator to modulate an injection current of the laser to produce optical sidebands for coherent population trapping, wherein the photodetector monitors said detected light to provide adjustments to the frequency of modulation of the external oscillator, detects a frequency of modulation that coincides exactly with the quantum absorbers, a harmonic of the quantum absorber frequency, or a subharmonic of the quantum absorber frequency, by detecting a change in the detected light and outputs the detected frequency as a reference. 10. An atomic frequency standard according to claim 7, further comprising: a single-frequency first optical field created by said laser; a second optical field, created through the process of Raman scattering, separated from the first field by a frequency equal to the transition in the quantum absorbers, wherein said photodetector detects a beatnote having a frequency equal to the optical difference frequency between the first and second fields and outputs said beatnote frequency as a reference. 11. A method for a micro-machined cell of an atomic frequency standard, comprising the steps of: micro-machining a container as a quantum resonator to have walls and a window to allow light to pass therethrough, said container operable to hold a vapor, enclosing in said cell a vapor comprising a plurality of quantum absorbers having a transition frequency; and reducing the destruction of the coherence of the quantum absorbers due to collisions of the quantum absorbers with the container walls. 12. A method of fabricating a micro-machined cell according to claim 11 further comprising the steps of bonding silicon to glass using a combination of elevated temperature and applied electric field in order for said container to enclose a small volume in an air-tight manner. 13. The atomic frequency reference of claim 7, wherein said vapor comprises an alkali atom. 14. The atomic frequency reference of claim 13 wherein said alkali atom is one of cesium, rubidium, and potassium. 15. A LAN comprising the atomic frequency reference of claim 7. 16. An instrument calibration system comprising the atomic frequency reference of claim 7. 17. An identification system comprising the atomic frequency reference of claim 7. 18. An anti-jamming apparatus comprising the atomic frequency reference of claim 7. 19. A magnetometer comprising: a micro-machined cell according to claim 1; a laser operable to generate light and positioned such that said light passes through said vapor; and a photodetector for detecting said light having passed through said vapor to provide a signal that is referenced to a characteristic of said light. 20. A computational device based on a network of micro-machined cells according to claim 1 wherein said cells are used to store information by encoding at least one coherence property of the quantum absorber.